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:3 Fixed it for you.
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don't force your hobbits on to me
ryan gosling > any hobbit
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>:O I have never seen such an incorrect post in my life.
Hobbits are by far the most attractive race.
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ryan gosling is the most attractive.
now stop it and go home and rethink your life.
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No, you can't make me.
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Look! Girls have their own opinions on guys!
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No. David Boreanaz obvsly wins here.
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David Boreanaz is a relatively handsome dude and excellent actor.
But Ryan Gosling is God.
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How can you reject this guy, hmm?
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Never be friends with a girl for too long, result: Friend-zone
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@bufu
The friendzone is the dumbest idea I have ever heard of.
There is no such thing as the friendzone. Often times the best relationships come from being friends first. No woman "friendzones" a guy. Shes being their friend. That does NOT mean she will never date them. Ever. And if she thinks that then shes really missing out and she isn't the type of girl you'd want anyway.
And if your avoiding being friends with a woman because you think she'll friendzone you, you are in for horrible relationships. Personally, I will ONLY date a guy I'm a good friend with first. If a relationship will work you have to be friends underneath it all. When you aren't making out and junk like that, if you aren't friends what will you talk about or do together?
So many guys are missing out and they stop trying to get a girl because they think they've been friendzoned, when in reality they are actually closer because they are good friends. But then they stop trying and the girl thinks they don't like her and she trys to find someone else.
I would say the concept of "friendzone" is the most detrimental thing to potential relationships and a young persons mind.

Every single relationship I've seen work the two people started as good friends first. My parents always say they married their best friend, and they've been married 22 years now.
My best friend and her boyfriend are doing very well, and they were great friends first.
My sister and her boyfriend have been together 9 years and they were good friends first as well.
On the other side, every relationship I've seen fail has started by just dating and not really knowing the other person.
A good male friend of mine firmly believes in the "friendzone" and he will not make friends with girls he wants to date to avoid that. He has never had a successful relationship.

Ugh honestly the whole idea of the friendzone is stupid and makes me angry.
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That's pretty sound logic. I completely agree.
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Thank you. People will never understand how much that mentally makes me mad.
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Kausa wrote: Every single relationship I've seen work the two people started as good friends first. My parents always say they married their best friend, and they've been married 22 years now.
My best friend and her boyfriend are doing very well, and they were great friends first.
My sister and her boyfriend have been together 9 years and they were good friends first as well.
On the other side, every relationship I've seen fail has started by just dating and not really knowing the other person.
A good male friend of mine firmly believes in the "friendzone" and he will not make friends with girls he wants to date to avoid that. He has never had a successful relationship.

Ugh honestly the whole idea of the friendzone is stupid and makes me angry.
The Friendzone exist, you know it, everyone knows it. It happens.
And dating your best friends won't work out half of the time.
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@Kausa: I do not know how to say this in a non-ageist fashion, but you are wise beyond your years. My fiancee is my best friend, and arguably my one true friend, and I have known her for nearly 14 years, though we have only been dating about half of that(our 7th anneversary is next saturday, the 16th). The "Friend Zone" is just one in a large number of bad relationship advice that comes from thinking in terms of pursueing a mate without care to building a proper relationship, and is part of a mindset that is toxic to finding one's life partner.
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@Bufu
I know it doesn't exist. It doesn't happen.
A relationship doesn't work out or she doesn't have feelings for you, has NOTHING to do with how good of friends you were or how long you were friends.
You just need something to blame when it goes south. Which it stupid. Blame that she didn't feel that way and stop polluting your potential relationships by not being friends first.
And dating anyone doesn't work half the time. But being friends, good friends at that, gives it a better chance. But if its not meant to be its not.

@Jeffery
Thank you very much! And thank you for agreeing with me :3
From what I've seen of you, I'd say you are very wise beyond your years as well.
Also, congrats on your anniversary!
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When it comes to the friend zone... this is how a friend of mine stated it: (spoilers in case I miss some naughty potty language)
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Him: You become attracted to a woman.
You are friendly to that woman in the hopes she will show you her lady parts.
She mistakes your friendliness for friendliness and befriends you, neglecting to show you her lady parts.
You act like a butthurt little jerkwad, forever placing yourself firmly outside of the circle on the Venn diagram of dudes she will ever show her lady parts to.
You complain about it on the internet, and 1000 other maladjusted bro-dudes go, “I know that feel,” and you are validated in your misogyny.
Him: Or this
Him: You become attracted to a woman.
You befriend her in a passive-aggressive, it’s-us-against-the-world kind of way.
She tolerates that because she’s too nice to tell you, “buzz off, you creep.”
She dates an actual interesting guy with an actual personality. They break up, and she hurts.
You offer your shoulder to cry on. She cries on your shoulder. She dates another interesting guy.
You go, “What the hell? You cried on my shoulder! Show me your lady parts!”
She reacts something like, “I thought we were friends, you lousy, freaking creep!”
You tell the internet you’ve been friendzoned.
The internet validates your misogyny.
Spoilers because I may not have caught every single rude line to edit it to be more 'child-friendly'. As child friendly as the subject matter of "men who complain about being friendzoned" can possibly be.

If you think you've been friendzoned, maybe you should stop trying to be friends with a girl to get into her pants and actually become friends with a girl to be friends with said girl. It's not rocket science. If you're not her type, she's not going to date you even if you're friends or not. And if you're shallow enough to try to pretend to be a girl's friend even if you don't like or want to do some of the stuff she does (you just wanted to get into her pants) then you don't deserve to be more than friends with her anyway.
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